Thursday, March 17, 2011

Male sexual psychology

The sexual psychology of males are quite different from females.The arrival of puberty, males develop to adulthood marks the beginning of the most significant change is with a different female characteristics. Moreover, the male character, psychology, behavior and deportment, show significant differences with the female.

As male sexual development later than their peers are female, the emergence of consciousness later than females. When the first nocturnal emission, and reflected in the body of the gender characteristics appear in his series of complex and subtle psychological changes.

In general, the change of their own lack of adequate mental preparation, therefore, difficult to adapt to a time and often creates a panic and feelings of uneasiness.Initial arrival of men in puberty, the performance of the pursuit of the opposite sex is not very clear, even disgust and alienation. They attached great importance to the friendship of same-sex partners.

After the close of the opposite sex to enter, resulting in nearly the opposite sex's emotional needs. They are curious about women in general, would like to know them, including physical and psychological. Of the beautiful girls is like, prominent academic who is also attractive.

They want to show their talents in front of women to attract attention to his other side. Especially in front of their favorite women, especially to sell things awkward. Want to become a hero in the eyes of the opposite sex, objects of worship.

Heterosexual men in the front and warm feelings are exposed. But sometimes the value of their hopes high performance, lack self-confidence, often in front of the opposite sex psychological stress.

Although some men love a woman, but they dared not show it, unrequited love. It is factual thing that if a man wants to have sex so his desire is not only to get physical pleasure.Mostly a man wants to have sex with a women he loves just to  feel wanted and grab her affection this is a true thing.

The idea that men think about sex every seven seconds, like the claim that we only use 10 percent of our brains, is often repeated but rarely sourced. 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent a few times a week or a few times a month, and 4 percent less than once a month.These things will describe the sexual psychology of men.

Most of the men gave these reasons after had  sex the reasons are:
  • I was attracted to the person
  • It feels good
  • I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
  • It’s fun
  • I wanted to show my affection to the person
  • I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
  • I was horny
  • I wanted to express my love for the person
  • I wanted to achieve an orgasm
  • I wanted to please my partner
  • The person’s physical appearance turned me on
  • I wanted the pure pleasure
  • I  was in the heat of the moment
  • I desired emotional closeness
  • The person had a desirable body
  • I realized I was in love
  • The person had an attractive face
  • The person really desired me
  • I wanted the adventure/excitement.
Symmetry is something that does not seem to exist between the female sexual desire and the male one. In men, the physical sense that first arouses desire is sight, specifically the sight of the female body. Conversely, in women, sight seems to have less importance in arousing the sexual impulse.men has more sexual affairs than women for different reasons.

Research has shown that about 25% of married couples experience sexual affairs. A man may have an affair even though he considers himself happy. An affair for a married man could be due to several reasons; among them, not being admired, looked up to and/or respected by his wife, not being able to express his sexual fantasies with his wife, having an interested woman available, needing to feel more masculine, and being bored with his married life.

Males are generally polygamous in nature and have to exercise restraint in order to stay sexually with one partner. Anthropological and social studies confirm that this has been and remains the nature of males.A man's motivation to have an affair generally differs from a woman's.

In general, due to their more polygamous nature and societal acceptance,. men are quicker to embark on a sexual experience outside of the relationship than women, and to that extent, men can bounce back to the marriage quicker, and they are also more willing to heal their original relationship after an affair.